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Shauna
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 9:48 am    Post subject: require effort regardless of situation  Reply with quote

My experience with my loved ones is authentic for the 1st time ever, but it's still really hard, for me the co-dependency issues obviously come into play w/ all of my relationships my boyfriend and I are both becoming more aware of the changes we need to make, we talk about it and work on it. When I was a kid I believed with my whole heart that all relationships were easy going and flawless. I was wrong, they take alot of attention from both parties if a healthy ideal is what you strive toward.
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Nicole
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 6:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I completely know what you mean, it takes a conscious effort to maintain a relationship....but so worth it when I realize that this person chooses me, and I choose him--no matter what.
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Shauna
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 12:52 pm    Post subject: harder some days than others Reply with quote

I am proud to say that I no longer sit and marinate in my relationship issues, they no longer debilitate me, I will not let my whole day rely on stuff that I in a nut shell, I can't control.
I still need to take care of myself especially when my relationship isn't going as "peachy" as I want it to. I find though that it helps me lots to reach out and go to counseling and "release" it and groups as well now this site too For me to feel supported is very nice!


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